How can this be lucky?

It’s not something I had ever thought about but on one of the tbi pages on Facebook a guy wrote about how the word ‘lucky’ being thrown about in situations like this. So people think it’s lucky I didn’t die? I’m hardly lucky it’s just my luck wasn’t as bad as it could have been, but I was still 100% unlucky it happened. Not lucky! It’s definitely not ‘lucky’. But that’s a word that’s used so easily in situation like this. But if I was lucky my thoughts would be like ‘Oh yeah cause it’s so lucky to have to learn basic functions again!’

Living with a tbi is not a ‘lucky’ thing. A ‘lucky’ thing to happen is winning the lottery or something not having to learn to live with a tbi. 🙄